Combine the coconut oil, shea butter, and honey in a double boiler. Melt over medium heat, stirring constantly. Depending on your stove it may take 10-20 minutes to totally melt the ingredients. After it melts, remove from heat and place in the refrigerator to solidify the mixture. It will take about 4-5 hours. Once the mixture is ready, scoop pieces into your stand mixer bowl. I used my Kitchen Aid flat beater attachment to "whip" the mixture. You can use a heavy-duty hand mixer if desired. Now, add the vanilla, and or essential oils of choice. This recipe will fill ten-4-ounce mason jars. Place a lid on and screw tight. Place jars in the refrigerator, if desired.